Party Like A Porn Star
Tina Said…
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The Rules
NO MEANS NO
No touching without permission
You must use condoms with anybody other than your partner
You must be 21 to join most swingers clubs or parties
No Drugs on premises, illegal over the counter or otherwise. B.Y.O.B.---- Swingers Clubs do not sell nor serve alcohol. Please bring your own.
There is to be no sexual activity between males.
GET WILD, GET NAKED, AND HAVE FUN!
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Swingers Etiquette
Following the rules is an effective way to make yourself welcome within the swinging community.
The Golden Rule
No means No. The swinging world accepts this rule that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime. There is no need to give an explanation and if someone tells you know you should not ask for an explanation or ask a second time. No means No. It should be done with a simple "No, thank you".
Be Friendly Be Courteous
Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. This is my best advise because I like to speak to everyone and sometimes people think you want to have sex with them just because you said hello. Don't be rude and don't flatter yourself. Just because someome smiled at you or said hello to you at a swingers party does not mean they want to have sex with you. Do as you would at a cocktail party and simply say hello or smile back. If the subject of sex comes up just say "No thank you" if you're not interested.
We all want to be treated, with kindness, thoughfulness, understanding and sensitivity. Courtesy is treating people the way we want to be treated.
Be Clean and Fresh
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or bad breath. Most swingers parties and clubs always have a good supply of mouth wash and breath mints and some swingers clubs even have showers. Bring your own hygene products just in case.
Don't Be Pushy Do Only What You Consider Fun
Remember that freedom of choice is every individual's right in swinging and respecting that right is only common courtesy. Learn how to handle a No, thank you graciously. If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.
Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
Practice Safe Sex
It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Condoms are required (excepted during sex with your own partner) at all Tina The Swinger Parties.
Respond To Invitations
RSVP means please reply to the invitation. The most frustrating part of hosting, is people who are discourteous enough not to respond, Good etiquette and good social courtesy require you respond.
Above All Enjoy Yourself
Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude. You are there to have the best of times and to share the uninhibited enjoyment with those who have discovered a new dimension in their lifestyles. Don't hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people. You'll find them eager to welcome you.